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"A Strong Woman Feels Deeply and Loves Fiercely. Tears flow just as abundantly as Laughter. A Strong Woman Both Soft and Powerful. Both Practical and Spiritual"

Female (80) looking for Male Reno, Nevada, United States

I'm Haslie, 75yr Chickasaw woman of Afro-American/ English ancestry with Multiple Sclerosis. Retired community college business administrative ass't. Worked in physical & mental health, postal clerk & volunteer. Love music /art/ dancing/ reading/writing/national politics/world religions. Have written autobiography & several short stories. I do silhouette paintings that make political/human interest statements. Amateur photographer. Play piano & chess. Living my future, my forever, my eternity today one day at a time to the fullest. I refuse to let anyone/anything take my joy away. Passion is fishing/camping/my metal detector (spent 12 years fishing & camping Northern Calif) rock collecting & most anything that take me outdoors under the sun, stars & moonlight. Small things mean a lot to me that I once took for granted like the wind, sunsets, tumbleweeds, moonlight, rainy days & mud, crickets chirping, etc. Dislike spiders and dust bunnies. Spiritually one with god & nature. Little jealous, possessive & protective of my man & most men find it amusing. have 3 kids and 5 grand kids who are the best of me and bring out the best in me.I have a unusual sense of humor, unpretentious, intelligent, fiercely loyal, blatantly honest, genuine, trusting & trustworthy, kind, self-sufficient, extrovert, realist, optimist. Intense & fierce lover. Give all & want all. Direct up front to the point effective communicator & expect the same. I'm extremely & unapologetically passionate about the people (my kids) & things I care about. Financially/ emotionally /intellectually secure. Drama free except for my passion for living. free spirited. Constantly evolving because the world around me is constantly evolving. I'm not in need of rescuing nor do I want to rescue someone else. I will not bring drama into your life or mine and my kids. I do not define myself by my taste in music, hair, clothes, people I know or places I have been or visa versa.
Do not need a man to complete me. I am a complete woman but need a man to compliment me and I him. Nor a man to take care of me but to care about me.
Life is a journey, an Adventure to share.....Far too many waste time living looking in the rear mirror of their lives....At this age we all have baggage, why let it control today, tomorrow.....After all, all we have is the present, why not add and enjoy what is left of our lives with someone special.....If you are looking for mediocre I am not the woman for you.
"Touch my mind and you get my Interest. Touch my heart and you get my Love. Touch my soul and you get Passion beyond your wildest dreams. Touch all three and you have a Lover beyond eternity."

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EthnicityNative American
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height6' 7" (200 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureLegs
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionWheelchair
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsOther
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyEducation / Academic
Employment StatusRetired
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job TitleRetired Community College Administrative Ass't.

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation comedies, Science fiction
Favorite movies typesComedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family
Music typesCountry, Pop, Classical, Latin, New age, Dance, Soul, Folk
Reading selectionNews, Ancient, Anthology, Biography, Health, History, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious, Science, Science fiction, I'm an author
Idea of funFishing, Music and dancing, chess, social events reno has to offer throughout the year. Live theater, Classic movies and concerts in the park
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Dancing, Family, Dining, Photography, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Cooking, Camping, Fishing, Shopping


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorFlirtatious
Friends describe asCool
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorFriendly
My great timeGoing shopping, Staying at home, Relaxing, Reading a book, Going to a concert, Going to a museum


Political viewsMiddle of the road
Attend religious servicesNever

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
Look for in a partnerI am looking is a hopeless romantic like myself. Don't do one night stands/friends with benefits. Honest/loyal & respectful. Able to communicate at any social level & able to accept unforeseen circumstances beyond one's control & the kind of woman that when her feet hits the floor in the morning the devil says "Oh, craps she's up" A man who will appreciate a woman who will stand by him when the going gets rough. A woman with "Lowak Hashi" (smile) A man that I can look into his eyes & see that I am in his heart & his soul. That I can give my heart/ my soul & body to & that is all he needs because it is all I have to give. A man whose heart I can possess & I will not have to share him with another woman. A man who will awake the fire in my soul & bring me to my knees & I cannot live without him. (smile) Wakes up every morning with a smile on his face because of me. Appreciate the simple things in life that are free. See people for who they are inside & not outside. Spiritual. Religions for those who are afraid of going to hell. Spirituality for those who have already been there. Not intimidated by a free spirited passionate sensual strong independent confident woman in a wheel chair who is comfortable with who she is where she is & where she is going. Accept & give unconditional love.
Not looking for perfection & you will not get perfection. Angels are perfect & I am no angel.
I'm not in need of rescuing nor do I want to rescue someone else. I will not bring drama into your life or mine and our kids. I do not define myself by my taste in music, hair, clothes, people I know or places I have been or visa versa.
Do not need a man to complete me. I am a complete woman but need a man to compliment me and I him. Nor a man to take care of me but to care about me.
My body is a temple like my apartment. If I take care it, it will serve me well.
My man will never lie to me, never abuse me physically or emotionally. Will never punish me by withholding love from me. Will love me as he loves himself. I will not walk behind him but beside him. I will bend but you will never break me. You will never withhold sex from me as punishment. You will have no doubt ever of how much I love you and to cheat on you is cheating my self. It will not happen. Why would I cheat? I cannot give away something that belongs to you. If I cheat on you, I am cheating myself. If I promise to love you always that is exactly what I will do. I am a woman of substance. strong but gentle, cry when I am happy and sad. Compassionate and passionate. No
room for you to cheat either because there will be nothing left over that you can cheat with. (smile) In your bed is not room for another women because I take all. Nothing is left over for you to give to another women. I am secure with my sexuality. l love being touched. I have never asked GOD, "why me." Why not me? I can handle it because my GOD walks beside me.
On the first dateFirst meeting; Healing Gardens of Renown, walk alone the Truckee River or sit alone the river by Wild River Grille. If all goes well & there is a second, I would prefer a quiet secluded place anywhere under the sun, stars and moonlight among trees lake or river, a soft blanket & fluffy pillows and a bottle of Wild Vines Blackberry Merlot. (smile) Soft music (Kenny G. peaceful music for dreams, sound therapy, romance, massage, sleep music, love and relaxation.) or just the sounds of nature. Picnic basket or midnight snack. Of course a campfire on the beach or in the wilds & we really get to know each other. (Smiles)